is commitment just a myth?

according to headings, well i would say that its getting complicated in my love relation and also my surroundings.

i mean c'mon! i'm not having a good wheel in this matter right now and the world was like mocking me like they were saying

"hey, look at us. we are happily mad in love"

or

"don't you loved it. having a meal with your loved one. it seems so....... connected"

well i don't care or maybe i'm pretending not to care. stop patronizing. it ain't cool at all. am i too involved or i am i just not capabale enough to be in the relation. i go frantic if i see one more couple mocking me saying like what i mentioned before.

for god sake am i getting paranoid. yes i promise myself not to involved in a relationship after HER until i finishes my study. the problem is i ougth to make exception that -not regretting- if i ran into a relation i'm not goint to refuse because i know that if i were to treat a women like i don't know perhaps it would be giving a false alarm to them. whatever it is my initial attention is to finish my study and get enough money than get married. but in intervals it would be nice knowing that someone is by your side.

am i getting to involved in this matter because i'm seeing this as i am taking it seriously. i have another 2 years to finish my studies and jump into the corporate work. but why is it sometimes i felt that i am a 25 years old guy keeping up with his study but don't have any career. i doesn't make sense at all. but i quoted a friend on twitter this morning. he's also having i don't know love matter or some sorts of deep relation but no lovey-dovey thingy.

 

i suggested to him that how about he plays her game while being in tact and dandy at the same times. being in tact as i define it to be very tacky and tactikle. well screw me if i'm giving advice although i'm having a relationship problem too because our case is not the same. i didn't expect he would say something like "i'm an average joe". i was startled to that resolved suddenly a flood of emotions came into me saying what i rather say smart -i think others might have used it before- and making sence. i said to him.

"c'mon bro. Superman don't wear his underwear outside without a reason"

he simply quoted me back by retweeting it and doesn't said anything back. is it a good sign or is it a bad things to said? the coversation stop there none to reply each other and i don't understand so took it as a positive action. what do you guys think?

comment in Malay is alright. just say what do you think perhaps you might have an experience. i'm just being comfortable writing in English.